Things You Can Do For Your Loved One

1. Hold their hand
2. Keep a diary
3. Write a poem, make a sign, draw a picture
4. Bring a picture of yourself, the family, or pet
5. Sit quietly at the bedside and hold their hand
6. Read to them, tape a message

• Remember, patients who have a breathing tube or trach cannot talk, but they can still hear your voice. You can talk to the patient (even if they appear to be asleep) about the weather, what's going on at home, in the community, or the world. Remind them of the day, date, and time.
• Provide reassurance. Let them know things at home are under control, for example: the pet/home/children are being watched by.... Let them know you and/or the family are doing okay; for example: getting enough rest, taking breaks, etc.
• If you wish, the nursing staff will involve you in the cares; ask staff what you can do. For example: swab the mouth, vaseline the lips, lotion dry skin, sponge bath, cool cloth to the forehead, exercises - range of motion, etc.
• Let the nurses know about any of the patient's personal habits/preferences. For example: nickname, hobbies, favorite music/TV programs, likes or dislikes.